#AuthorToolboxBloghop: Contesting the Contest Hype

I’m gonna start this off totally upfront. I was a mentee in Pitch Wars ’14 and ’15. I’m now a mentor in that same contest, and TeenPit. I was in a buttload of other contests (I forget most, but Googling can bring them up if you want to spend some time stalking around). And, despite all that, I got my agent through traditional querying.

Contests are amazing. I had little by the way of a writing community when I was introduced to the world of Twitter and internet writing contests. I’d never had real deadlines to work under before. The goals I’ve made and lessons I’ve learned are priceless. And that community? I wouldn’t be writing today without it. I wholeheartedly encourage all my writing friends to enter them.

But also, I know a lot of people who have been completely destroyed from them.

They either didn’t get in, or they did get in and they had a bad experience, or they got in but didn’t get an agent, or so many other things. And I get it. No one’s aren’t wrong to feel that way. I’ve been at the bottom of that pit, and it is dark and lonely and awful.

A vast majority of writers I know are rep’d through traditional querying. (And I know a lot of authors from having been involved in so many contests and competitions and forums for over seven years.) Like I said, even I caught my agent’s attention through traditional querying, and before she signed with me I did an revise and resubmit. Which was amazing and made my story immensely better, even after I’d been in Pitch Wars twice. No contest is the end all, be all. There’s so much more to learn, and infinite room to grow no matter if you’ve been in a contest or not.

Please don’t let any contest keep you from writing if it’s what you love. You aren’t a failure if you don’t get into a contest. You’re not a failure if you do get into a contest and don’t requests or representation from it it. You’re not a failure if you got an agent from a contest but still haven’t sold your book.

You wrote a book.

Tell me how many people you know in your personal life who have accomplished writing a novel. There’s probably not a ton. Most people will never understand enough about publishing and editing and revising to get it to the point you do. And the online community you build is the most important part of these contests, but it can be exhausting with mostly good news all the time. Because, yes you’re happy for them, but you feel like you’ll never have your turn.

Please keep writing. Keep querying. Keep listening and learning. Take breaks and don’t worry about them, we all need them from both writing and/or social media. The odds of getting into a large contest are slimmer than getting a request querying an agent, nowadays. The odds of getting rep’d through a contest are then even tinier. It’s not even a guarantee to get rep’d!  I could have entered another Pitch Wars with how long it took for me to sign with my agent.  (Well, I was rep’d for about three months after my first PW, but that’s a long story that did not end well and made everything worse.)

Getting an agent, getting a book deal, getting into contest, it’s all like winning the lottery. For the most part, it’s luck. You can’t know if the judge or mentor you submitted to hates a small trope in your book; you can’t know if the agent was having a bad day; you can’t know if the editor you went on submission to just bought a similar book the day before. But it’s not all luck. The fact that you’ve come so far, that you’re reading this post, that you’re investing so much time in your craft, means you’re increasing your odds.

It’s okay to still pursue your dream even if you didn’t win the lottery this time. The only thing it costs you to try again is time (and, let’s be real, emotional perseverance). Like I said, contests are amazing in how they teach you so much, and that community is what pulled me through some of the worst of my dark times. You should keep entering.

But this is not your end all and be all. Your words are more important than a contest.

You are more important.

I’m sorry this line of work is so rough. But you’re awesome for coming so far.

If you want to share/ramble/word vomit your story, both my ears are open for you in the comments or elsewhere (I get that sometimes talking it out helps). If you want to add on encouragement for anyone who needs it, totally feel free to leave some of those, too. And if you want to keep honing your craft, check out more #AuthorBlogHop posts.

(I also apologize for the sheer amount of italics in this post. And how messy it is. I have emotions about this.)

Bacon, out.

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20 thoughts on “#AuthorToolboxBloghop: Contesting the Contest Hype

  1. *raises hand* I didn’t get into Pitch Wars last year, and I just signed with an agent through traditional querying this month. And even though I was devastated last year, I learned so much through the Pitch Wars process, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. :) Great post!

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  2. Thanks for the reminder that it’s not *all* luck. I entered PW this year (my first time!) while running a beta, but regardless of the outcome, I’ll soldier on with my story. Onward to the query trenches!

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  3. This is such an important message – and the timing is perfect, too. Pitch Wars is just one path among many. This a great reminder that people shouldn’t put too much importance on these contests. Thanks for sharing!

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  4. I love your positive, rah-rah spirit. So many writers get discouraged with the submission process. Let’s face it, we’re a mostly insecure bunch, and when someone doesn’t love our baby as much as we do, it hurts. The thing we have to remember (and we’ve heard this a million times) is this is a subjective business. There are myriad reasons a book isn’t picked up,and they probably have nothing to do with the quality of your writing.
    Perseverance wins the race.

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    • Absolutely! Traditional publishing is a long road, and it’s definitely not for all. It’s hard to remember instant success stories aren’t the norm, and persevering through the years it can take to reach our goals is tough.

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  5. Each time a story is rejected, it is an opportunity to make it better. Each rejection teaches us something about our craft and the industry.
    I’m grateful that my submissions last year were unsuccessful: my series wasn’t ready yet and it was something I only realised while writing the last book during NaNoWriMo 2016. I can’t imagine the horror if I’d landed an agent and the first book was published without the new subplot…
    I agree: competitions can be good for us. Last year I sent a short story to an anthology competition and got rejected. After taking a break (life happened in horrible ways) I rewrote it, sent it to a another competition and it will be published in an anthology in November.
    Like Cheryl said above: perseverance wins the race.
    Thanks for sharing your view on pitch wars and the like :-)

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  6. Hi! I submitted to quite a few contests and sometimes I was chosen and sometimes not. I never got an agent. And it does suck. You feel like you aren’t allowed at the cool kids’ table. But I signed with a small press, have a YA book published just last month, and now my publisher is expanding her company to include agent representation- just in time for my current manuscript. I really couldn’t be happier.
    So, yes, there are many paths and who knows what anyone’s will be?
    Great post!
    Leslie

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    • Congrats!!! (But just so you know, it’s a HUGE turnoff to agents and editors to publicly talk about requests you get while you’re querying! Of course celebrate with CPs and such, but it’s a sign of unprofessionalism to most. :) ) I’m happy that you’re finding success in your writing, now!

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  7. Motivating and inspiring writing. I think it’s good to try these kind of things, one should just try not too take it too seriously and too much to the heart. Being lighthearted about stuff is a difficult skill to learn, but it’s extremely useful.

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  8. I have to admit, fears like this hold me back in a lot of ways. There’s a part of me that quails against trying any kind of submission, whether that be a regular query or as some form of contest, because failing would confirm my worst suspicions about my writing. *sigh* I am trying to be more positive and not take these things too seriously as you suggest but it’s an uphill struggle. Thank you for giving me some perspective.

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